duminică, 26 mai 2013

I call this chapter of my life : Questions

 I think we all have a period in our lives when we question everything . We question our friends , we question our lifestyle , we question the clothes we have , we question our family , we question media , we question our teachers , we question school , we question religion , we question God , we question life .. but do we ever really find an answer to any of these questions ? Probably after we die we'll find the answers but nobody came back from that to tell us so far , right ?
 In my opinion , all we got are theories , opinions . We have the right to think . We have something what in romanian is called 'liberul arbitru' . It's practically the unlimited freedom to do what we want to . We will always have some people in our lives to tell us what to do . It's up to us if we want to listen to them or not . They may be right . But where's the pleasure of doing the right thing when you just followed some rules ?
  Some people claim that we don't take enough risks . That you'll succeed only if you take risks . But the truth is that we take risks every minute of our lives . Every decision we make is a risk we take . For example , I made the decision to write this post . Maybe there's someone who doesn't agree with me and (s)he will come with some very strong arguments . It's a risk I took . Well , this example might not be so good , because I don't write just to see who agrees with me , I write because I love to , and the opinions from the others are just a bonus .
  Getting back to the main idea , is this questioning period just a period or do we question things for the rest of our lives once we started ?
  Now , for example , I'm questioning myself if questioning things is good ? On one hand , it should be good , it should help us evolve psychically , but on the other hand I think questions do nothing but complicat life . Why don't we keep it simple ?
  I'm not saying that we shouldn't question anything . Some things are to be questioned , but questioning every little thing will drive us crazy . Like one of my previous quotes said ,' you'll create a problem that wasn't even there in the first place '
 Sometimes we get to question ourselves . " Am I good enough ? Am I smart enough ? Am I skinny enough ? " . Well , these questions do nothing but poison your mind . All these questions are about evolving , psychically or physically . Never stop evolving . Of course you can be a better version of yourself , but that doesn't mean you're not good enough :)

We all are angry , but each one of us for different reasons .What are you angry for ? 

12 comentarii:

  1. am sa ma exprim in romana pentru ca pot!

    1. e bine sa te intrebi de toate! orice! orice lucurri marunte! de fapt, cred ca intrebarile marunte pot aduce raspunsuri complexe! cheia e sa stii ce intrebari pui si cui pui aceste intrebari!

    2. nu cred ca intrebarile te inenbunesc, cred ca de raspunsuri ne e frica. sau ne e lene sa cautam raspunsurile si atunci, mai bine ramanem in zona de confort cu atata cat stim.

    3. incearca sa eviti generalizarile:D nu toti sunt cumva. singura generalizare pe care o poti face e: toti suntem diferiti! :D

    4. 'Anger' cred ca e un cuvant prea dur pentru a-mi defini starile mai putin placute:D

    5. multumesc!

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    1. 1. dupa cum am mai spus , parerile difera :D eu doar mi-am spus parerea .
      2. cred ca uneori e mai bine sa nu stim unele lucruri . sunt lucruri care odata stiute , te distrug pana nu mai ramane nimic din tine , da' o sa iti zic mai multe despre asta face-to-face .
      3. intentia mea nu a fost sa generalizez , doar ca exista unele trasaturi pe care le avem toti .
      4. ...ok
      5. eu iti multumesc !:):*

      Ștergere
  2. It's more fun when it's complicated:P and yeah, you'll question everything for the rest of your life, becuse that's what people do;) you don't question things when you don't care....

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    1. interesting :-? what about anger ? you didn't answer to that question :D

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    2. I am angry because i have a fucked up life, because people are stupid and beacuse i'm scared...doesn't matter of what:)

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    3. i think i know what you're scared of , and you shouldn't be . you need to be strong :D about people , well , that's the way God left us and you shouldn't worry about anyone but yourself :D aaand about the "fucked up" life , you can always change it :D i mean , find the things that fuck up your life and destroy or ignore them . set yourself free :)

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  3. nice article. reading it raised me a lot of questions :P i think you should write more often. :) (alina)

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    1. thanks Alina . and also thanks for reading my blog :*

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    2. i have to thank you for giving me something good to read:D. but i want more posts!! :* (Alina)

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    3. well , I need inspiration to write . and you know , there are times when inspiration hits you in the face and times when it's just gone :D but I promise I'll try to write more often :*

      Ștergere
  4. this is a very wonderful post! this makes us think and ponder about those things that we do everyday. I guess there's just some questions that doesn't have to be answered, and some things that we don't understand but we have to accept.

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