miercuri, 26 decembrie 2012
Friendship , Love and other things that complicate life
Friendship.What really means having a friend ? Do we really need friends or it is just an idea of the society ? In my vision , a friend is the person you want to talk to when you're hurt , happy , depressed , excited , in love ; the person you want to gossip with, instead of gossip about , if that makes any sense .
These days I was thinking about my friends and I kept having this term in my mind "fake friends" . There's no such thing as a fake friend . I mean come on , you can be friend with someone or you can pretend to be . But you can't be a FAKE FRIEND . You just can't . Pretending to be friends with someone means that you're fake ; not a fake friend . Or at least , that's how I see things .
I guess I'm lucky , I always had that someone to go to if I was in trouble , or if I was happy and had to tell someone why . We probably couldn't live without friends because we would end up lonely and depressed .
Aaand Love . Do we really need it ? I don't know 'bout you , but I do . I couldn't imagine life without love . There would be just cold-hearted people . I'm not talking about relationship-kind-of-love . I'm talking about simple and sincere love . Unconditional love . Like the love that a parent has for his child . Or the love a man has for his animal . Or the love we all have for our home . And why not , the love we have for our partner . We need something or someone to complete us . We need that one thing or one person that will make us laugh , cry , smile . We need someone who will love us back .
But what if you're in love with your best friend ? I think this is the best and the worst thing that can happen to you . The best if he/she loves you back and the worst if he/she won't share your feelings . When you get to the point where you're in a relationship with your best friend , you're untouchable . Why ? Because then you know that you have someone to talk to about anything and someone to love . Both in one person .
On the other hand , sometimes I wish I was a cold-hearted . Then I wouldn't get hurt . But as I'm thinking , I realize that at the end of the day , I need that someone . Like I said , I can't imagine life without love .. and friends :)
In your arms . " Someone said this is the place where everything's better and everything's safe . " (OTH)
Pink - Try
Aura Dione - Friends
Eminem - No love
Lil' Wayne - How to love
Gavin DeGraw - Soldier