miercuri, 26 decembrie 2012

Friendship , Love and other things that complicate life


         Friendship.What really means having a friend ? Do we really need friends or it is just an idea of the society ? In my vision , a friend is the person you want to talk to when you're hurt , happy , depressed , excited , in love ; the person you want to gossip with, instead of gossip about , if that makes any sense .
          These days I was thinking about my friends and I kept having this term in my mind "fake friends" . There's no such thing as a fake friend . I mean come on , you can be friend with someone or you can pretend to be . But you can't be a FAKE FRIEND . You just can't . Pretending to be friends with someone means that you're fake ; not a fake friend . Or at least , that's how I see things .
         I guess I'm lucky , I always had that someone to go to if I was in trouble , or if I was happy and had to tell someone why . We probably couldn't live without friends because we would end up lonely and depressed .
         Aaand Love . Do we really need it ? I don't know 'bout you , but I do . I couldn't imagine life without love . There would be just cold-hearted people . I'm not talking about relationship-kind-of-love . I'm talking about simple and sincere love . Unconditional love . Like the love that a parent has for his child . Or the love a man has for his animal . Or the love we all have for our home . And why not , the love we have for our partner . We need something or someone to complete us . We need that one thing or one person that will make us laugh , cry , smile . We need someone who will love us back .
        But what if you're in love with your best friend ? I think this is the best and the worst thing that can happen to you . The best if he/she loves you back and the worst if he/she won't share your feelings . When you get to the point where you're in a relationship with your best friend , you're untouchable . Why ? Because then you know that you have someone to talk to about anything and someone to love . Both in one person .
         On the other hand , sometimes I wish I was a cold-hearted . Then I wouldn't get hurt . But as I'm thinking , I realize that at the end of the day , I need that someone . Like I said , I can't imagine life without love .. and friends :)

                           In your arms . " Someone said this is the place where everything's better and everything's safe . " (OTH)

                                            Pink - Try
                                            Aura Dione - Friends
                                            Eminem - No love
                                            Lil' Wayne - How to love
                                            Gavin DeGraw - Soldier

marți, 11 decembrie 2012

Inspiring videos

        I've always loved to see a good video/movie , one that wakes up a feeling in me , one that touches me somehow . I thought I should show you some of them , they can really make a change in your life , they can influence you so that you change you mentality without even noticing :)

       When I first saw this video I couldn't help myself . The video is about a father who carries his son 'through' the triathlon . It meant a lot to me . It kinda' taught me that if you really want something , working hard you'll get it ! (not to mention that the song completes perfectly the video)

       This video speaks for itself ..

        I find this short movie pretty awesome . I think that everyone who loves his(her) mother cries at the end of the movie . I was so touched to see that this awesome idea came from a romanian man. It's worth watching from the beginning to the end :)

    The awesomEST thing he said , in my opinion , was ' if you don't build your dreams someone else will hire you to build theirs ' . What can I say ? True story :)


     I've never been really patriotic but I know that our country has to offer more than people know . They hear just the bad things about Romania ; instead of the good ones . The problem is that we don't know/don't care to evoluate . We have such a beautiful country , for exemple : we have mountains , a sea , we have all the 4 seasons (spring , summer , autumn , winter) , we have beautiful sights , we have rivers .. I don't want to over-apreciate , but I think it's one of the most beautiful countries in the world . It's a shame that romanians don't join each other for a better country/life :)

She's amazing ..

     I included this video in my post mostly for the quotes , but his story is pretty amazing too :)

         Probably everyone knows his speech , but still , it is unbelieveble . He had a crazy lifestyle and he still ended up pretty fine .. R.I.P :)

            I really hope you enjoy all the videos :) they're worth watching !!

duminică, 9 decembrie 2012

After a day

        This morning when I woke up I saw that it's still snowing . My brother is out playing in the snow , I'm drinking a hot cup of tea and my parents are cleaning the yard so we can go out .

                           After one day of non-stop snowing : 

                                                      That's how my yard looks like ;

That's how my windows look like ;

.. And that's how my street looks like :)
Awesome :)
I hope you enjoy the snow as much as I do .

sâmbătă, 8 decembrie 2012

First snow

     Winter. Snow . Magic . Love . Mercy . Cold . Warm . Kindness . Tea . Christmas . Family . Friends . Christmas tree . Ice-skating . Happiness ♥

 In my opinion , winter is ' the most wonderful time of the year ' . It's time for Christmas , New Years Eve , aand not to forget the first snow (for most of the countries) . The first snow reminds me of childhood . When I was little I always used to go out for hours just to build snowmen , and do any fun stuff . Nowadays , children don't enjoy the first snow like I used to and I still do . They don't go out to catch the first snowflake like I used to . Probably it's because I've always been a dreamer . It seems so magical . Winter is the coldest and the warmest season :)


                                                                 me & brother

                                                        let it snow , let it snow , let it snow

         You know , when we are young , we are taught that there's an old fat man who will bring us any toy we want if we are good kids . One day we grow up and we find out that it was all a lie . I think that our childhood ends up when we find out that Santa and Easter Bunny doesn't exist .
       Well , I think that Santa exists . He might not be an old fat man , but he's certainly a spirit . He's the feeling of magic . He's the joy on Christmas Eve .
       Recently I found out that in Finland they have a place called Santa's Village . Can you believe how awesome is that ? To have such a wonderful place .
       Like Andy Williams said , Christmas " is the most wonderful time of the year " . Christmas is not about presents . Christmas is about having your family and loved ones next to you .
      Christmas is my favourite holiday since I was a child and it will always be . It is the only time of the year when I see mercy , forgiveness and happiness . I've always believed in magic . I've seen it with my eyes . If people would learn to open their eyes to the world they would be surprised how magical it is . I can't tell if it's because of Santa or not , but on Christmas Eve out there is more love and peace than any other time of the year . Maybe people are still afraid of being on the "naughty" list and they try to do good things on the last minute . Maybe they want to make others dreams come true . Maybe they want to impress someone . The most important thing is that they do .
       Like they said in One Tree Hill , ' believe that dreams come true , because they do ' ! :)